Rants of a at home mom

Rants of a at home mom

So it's the day after Christmas and once again I have managed to disappoint the larger portion of my family. So how seem to get the worst of me no matter how I try to avoid it all. So every year I have been married my husband and I have spend it together just the two of us but the first. Because we lived with a family member. And no one seemed to ever care, it was never a big deal. That is until this last year we had our first (and only) baby and now everyone wants in. So I try and plan things on different days to include all. My parents are divorced and live fairly close but dare they spend the day together for our be half no so I'm not going to split my holiday up. I did that enough as a kid. So i planned ahead this year did mom the weekend before, dad was suppose to be the weekend after. But of course that got changed to the day after. Oh well no big deal all are covered. Now you may wonder about my hubbies mom but she's about 5 hours away. So we really don't get together.

Now on the day of I get the call well don't you just want us to come today (from the parent who says no biggie I want you to start your own traditions) So when I say no cause my days set I'm wrong. UGH! When I do speak to my mom she cries cause she's alone, My hubbies mom does the same.

OK OK I get it let's do something together and then if your not all happy I quit. I post this invite this morning Alright family Christmas at the Sheeley's next year starting @11, u bring the food we'll bring the tree! :)

To which I am criticized for. I CAN'T WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So alright I'm still willing to give it one shot and if it still doesn't work I'm going to Hawaii.

Thanks for listening I feel much better now.

Oh by the way still waiting for the other side of the fam to show up.